Comments on: How to Get Over the Pain of Being Ghosted https://matthewhussey.com/blog/how-to-get-over-the-pain-of-being-ghosted/ Have The Love Life You Want Sun, 12 May 2024 10:54:32 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.6.1 By: sabung ayam online https://matthewhussey.com/blog/how-to-get-over-the-pain-of-being-ghosted/#comment-1214455 Sun, 12 May 2024 10:54:32 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=72748#comment-1214455 I couldn’t refrain from commenting. Well written!

]]> By: Nancy https://matthewhussey.com/blog/how-to-get-over-the-pain-of-being-ghosted/#comment-1180723 Sun, 29 Jan 2023 19:31:30 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=72748#comment-1180723 Matthew, I immensely appreciate your work and support in relationship matters!

This video helped me to better understand how to also end my wrong relationship of approximately 6 years with a man 11years older.

I have often thought that the right man or men will not really approach me properly if I do not break up with my current man.

Thanks again!

]]> By: Amanda https://matthewhussey.com/blog/how-to-get-over-the-pain-of-being-ghosted/#comment-1180214 Fri, 13 Jan 2023 19:32:31 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=72748#comment-1180214 In reply to Melissa.

I feel this one. I was ghosted by someone who I’ve known for 20 yrs and these past two years we’ve gotten closer and was dating and he ghosted me and deleted me from social media and never responded to my text. I am completely devastated bc I did so much for him. I had to find out from a mutual friend he was moving on. And today is his birthday so I’m thinking about him more. I never thought he would do this to me.

]]> By: Aurea https://matthewhussey.com/blog/how-to-get-over-the-pain-of-being-ghosted/#comment-1180125 Tue, 10 Jan 2023 17:45:35 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=72748#comment-1180125 Hi Matt!!!

You have help me, like no other time!!!”

Whit this video you help me with my relationship with my father and with my cheating boyfriend.
This video was for all kind of toxic relationship and to encourage people to move on, and to stop giving our precious time, to someone that doesn’t will give something worthy in your life.

In this video you really talk to my hearth and soul.

Thank you!

The best for you always!

Áurea

]]> By: Michelle https://matthewhussey.com/blog/how-to-get-over-the-pain-of-being-ghosted/#comment-1180109 Tue, 10 Jan 2023 01:01:55 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=72748#comment-1180109 Thank you for this video. Several men came on strong over text and then dissapeared. This reminds me to just move on.

]]> By: Diane https://matthewhussey.com/blog/how-to-get-over-the-pain-of-being-ghosted/#comment-1180106 Mon, 09 Jan 2023 23:27:13 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=72748#comment-1180106 It has helped me with the death of my husband and our complicated marriage. It sounds so clear. Thank you!

]]> By: Catherine Angel https://matthewhussey.com/blog/how-to-get-over-the-pain-of-being-ghosted/#comment-1180098 Mon, 09 Jan 2023 19:40:38 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=72748#comment-1180098 Matt, I love love this video! It speaks to a pattern I have fallen into many times in the past, but with your help have learned to recognize and short circuit by making an active decision to put my time and energy elsewhere, rather than on the person I was ruminating about. I do have one small feedback about the video. I found the cuts to Jameson, although cute and funny, distracting from the content of the video. I get into a zone when I’m listening to you, and I’m usually thinking about people and relationships in my life as I’m listening to you and taking your framework and applying it to those relationships. I found those cuts away to Jameson interrupted that flow for me and somewhat diluted the whole experience. You may not know it, but those five or 10 minutes of each video you post is an opportunity for me, and many of us, to really focus in and listen carefully, because what you have to offer is so full of value. That’s been proven to me time after time. I do enjoy the funnier videos as well, but in this context, found those sections more distracting than anything. I love the team, I love the podcasts, and I look forward to every episode! Thank you for all the gems you share with us, and with your loved ones who surround you.

]]> By: Michele https://matthewhussey.com/blog/how-to-get-over-the-pain-of-being-ghosted/#comment-1180095 Mon, 09 Jan 2023 16:57:13 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=72748#comment-1180095 Thank you, love this! I receive such help from your videos. I recently dated a man from the gym. Three months inseparable. I left his house on a Saturday confirming to go back Sunday (at his request) and when I texted for details Sunday morning I was told he was struggling (?) and never heard back! The killer is I still see him at the gym and he always smiles and says good morning! I’m working on giving MYSELF closure. I want to scream at him but I know it won’t do any good! Being ghosted is cruel and extremely painful! Sending you all hugs because I know how it hurts!!!!

]]> By: Kate https://matthewhussey.com/blog/how-to-get-over-the-pain-of-being-ghosted/#comment-1180093 Mon, 09 Jan 2023 16:10:23 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=72748#comment-1180093 I needed to hear this – thank you Matthew. I’ve been looking for closure – I’ve had an on/off relationship with someone for several years. He’s never said ‘we’re over’ or ‘ I just want to be friends’ or anything in fact. General conversation has always been good, but nothing about our relationship. He never told me when he started dating someone else (despite a mutual friend telling him he should) he just turned up at my workplace with her with no warning. He agreed, after this, that we needed to talk, but never found time. I found out he got engaged via a Facebook post. I sent him a voice message telling him how hurt I felt, and that I wasn’t looking to rekindle our relationship, I just wanted him to be straight with me. I got nothing.
Yes, I understand he never really invested in me – I invested in him. But it is hard – especially when it’s highly likely we’ll cross paths through work, and have mutual friends.

]]> By: Sarah McGowan https://matthewhussey.com/blog/how-to-get-over-the-pain-of-being-ghosted/#comment-1180090 Mon, 09 Jan 2023 15:15:14 +0000 https://matthewhussey.com/?p=72748#comment-1180090 I’m about a year into dating after ending my 18 yr marriage. I remember feeling horrible after being ghosted every time it happened. Having listened to your content and joining the love life club, I can honestly say I feel like I’ve turned a corner.
I still get ghosted but it doesn’t nearly have the same effect. I know straight away that this person just saved me a lot of time and they are not for me. The patterns of behavior for the men that are no good for me are becoming obvious. It’s almost funny that they all behave the same way when it comes to ghosting. I used to get so hung up on words and the lovely things these men would say. Now, I am far more interested in their actions.
I am actually beginning to enjoy dating now.
I just wanted to let you know that you are setting us all free one by one, with the great work you do x

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