Comments on: Want More Than a Situationship? DON’T CHASE, Do This Instead

By: CLG

CLG — Mon, 13 Mar 2023 21:18:54 +0000

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By: CLG

CLG — Mon, 13 Mar 2023 21:15:33 +0000

Hello Matt!
I truly enjoy watching your videos and following your advice on relationships. I think he has helped me in so much. I only wish I would have found you just a tad sooner than I did. Let me explain… this comment goes towards those that tend to be “love bombers.” Although I feel like you are correct for the most part on your assessment of them, I do think there are instances where that isn’t the case. I say that because after hearing your definition of one, I realized that I fell under that name recently. With that being said, trust me, I regret letting my emotions take over and allowing my mouth ti blurt things out. I am not in my relationship with minimal intentions in mind. I genuinely want to see if we can make it long term permanent. After watching several of your videos, I have been working on myself to change those areas and get better control over my emotions. I just hope I am not too. I have a tendency to wear my heart on my sleeve. Not always the best trait to have. Any suggestions on how I might correct any damage that I may have caused? Or do I just lay low and see what happens? I truly want to make this a lasting relationship with the man I am seeing!

By: Paula

Paula — Mon, 13 Mar 2023 12:17:30 +0000

Hi Matthew, I really appreciate your videos and overall knowledge. You are an amazing mentor for all that you contribute to the female persuasion,insert smiley face. I just wanted to weigh in and mention, and I hope you agree even in part, that the whole dynamic of the timing issue of when to take it to that final level comes down to 2 things. Again,just my opinion. Does he see her as the exception or the rule. If it happens 2 dates in and is the latter, bye bye birdy. But it’s the former, it won’t matter, will it. I have always found this part of the male thinking to be an enigma to say the least. Does he decide right away, after a few mins of getting to know you convo or when. I feel this is a major if not a definitive factor in how that will play out in short or long term. Thanks for reading.

By: Jamie

Jamie — Sun, 12 Mar 2023 17:54:14 +0000

Great advice, as usual. I understand your advice doesn’t come from a religious stance, and I personally think religion sucks. But I do absolutely trust God’s ways, and it’s for many of the same reasons that you listed why He asks us to wait for marriage. It’s not about “rules”, it’s about protecting His children. If you don’t know Him, I HIGHLY recommend it!!
P.S.: I am also not a prude, and did not wait until marriage to have sex…but wouldn’t it be a beautiful thing?